Friday, January 14, 2011

Episode 9 : When Sex Is No Longer Sin

I have been fascinated by the idea of the Devil & Hell. Not because  I will end up in the hot arms of the Devil. But because I am intrigued by the philosophy of sin. The definition of sin, and the factors that make one kind of sin to have more weight than another. Why is lying to your son about where children come from a lesser sin than say prostitution or stealing?

I have read quite some literature exploring the concept and consequences of sin. There is Dante's Inferno, Robert Louis Stevenson's Markheim and certainly the Bible. I love Jesus' view of sin; an outlook so detached from even the most faithful of his followers. And no, I am not saying this because He had a soft spot for prostitutes; but rather because he was real.

Anyway sometime last year I read on some blog a story trying to give at modern look at Hell. The story defined Hell as the place "Where doing wrong is right, and doing right is wrong.". After the protagonist had sex  in Hell for the first time, he says something like. " This was my first sexual experience in hell. It was flat .There was nothing exciting about it. Perhaps not because sex was readily available but due to the fact that the naughty element of sex that makes it the mischievous act it is on earth was lacking. "

This brings me to my point . Among the major contributors to the so called pleasure of sex is the fact that sex is 'sin' , the 'wrong' thing . When the sin element of sex is removed it becomes another biological exercise like eating. In marriage the sin factor is contributed by trying to hide it from children and house help. But after sometime that fails to provide the adrenaline rush to spark the excitement in sex; that is when people start to cheat. Sleeping with a prostitute when married is 'wrong' but to most men it offers plenty of pleasure. Simply because its not right.

When you earn a living having sex, like I do, its no longer sin. There is nothing to cause the adrenaline rush. Sex is work & work is never particularly interesting. But once in a while you will get a man who comes with an out of the ordinary idea that stimulates your pleasure glands.

The other day a man in a new Jeep picked me around 10 pm. He told me to sit at the back. " I want to report my wife" he said as we drove to the Central Police Station. The police are not our best friends and wherever possible we keep our distance. But here he was taking me, almost naked and with prostitute written all over me,  to a police station. I didn't feel so good.

He drove straight to the compound, and parked near a bus whose passengers some two policemen were frisking. We had sex there. It didn't last ten minutes, but it was the sweetest and most exciting sex I have had in a long time.

30 comments:

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  2. Haha i do love your writing very cool.

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  3. Sue
    Hiyo ndiyo kiboko yao. I will try hook up with yu and then we can go do it at Central. Utani-charge ngapi? Lakini that day I want to fcuk you ukiwa Chebet, sawa?

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  4. @Johny and Anonymous thanks..Don't I would risk going to Central again. Haha don't want to push my luck too far, however exciting the idea sounds.

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  5. seriously,give us a break

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  6. He was probably a police inspector out to make sure his 'mboys' were not sleeping on the job while he got some fun out of it...
    Either that or he's just a few notches from 'lunatic'. A man with a death wish!

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  7. Still wondering if you haven't considered alternative job ideas. You sound educated and intelligent, as everyone has said.

    Now I feel judgmental.

    I'd hate for sex to lose that exciting edge.

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  8. wow...i've gotta do this @Kasarani police station!!!! I have serious beef with them pigs

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  9. Wow... Sounds interesting.. keep writing some more..

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  10. how is this even possible SMGDH

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  11. Now that I agree with :-)

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  12. Lol, you are a captivating writer!!! Are you on Twitter?

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  13. SIN..always been curious about SIN..so this was very eye-opening..

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  14. Brilliant piece. I love your insight into this thing we call sex. Keep writing. I am hooked.

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  15. that was a thrillin' piece, got a hard on picturin that 10 minute episode..am gonna comb those streets 4 yu

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  16. is it safe for you guys to just meet and enter in a strangers car without any fear?

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  17. You are widely read.You quote great authors more than lawyers when making a press statement on tv.You beat them politicians.Good writing skills,by the way you live some columnists gasping for their breath with your articles.

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  18. Hello Sue,

    James here. You have been occupying my mind for the last two days. Deep in my heart i am very sad for how your life turned out.You could have been a class mate of mine. i just cannot not imagine someone with your background to be in prostitution, we expect prostitutes to be poverty stricken women from the slums trying to earn a living. Education is ment to open your eyes and give you skills to navigate this world. You have options why prostitution? why not waitress or a cleaner? unless you like what you do. I know women in Sweden who choose prositution as a career and are respected for it, it is legal in Sweden. Kenya is another story.

    For me to imagine that you were pushed to the streets is hard to imagine.Can you really have such a poor image of yourself? I dont blame you, i think it has to do with your upbringing, something must have happened to you when you where young.Someone must have done something horrible to you to feel this worthless.



    I know it can be difficult trying to secure employment in Kenya.There is discrimanation against tribe,class,education.It is very unfortunate.

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  19. I beg to contradict the above comment, it is girls like the Author that push the bar in terms of quality assurance to service delivery, and to later on document it. Sue your blog is an accountable doctrine that shall shape the future of quality prostitution in Kenya. Kudos

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  20. This brings me to my point . Among the major
    contributors to the so called pleasure of sex is the
    fact that sex is 'sin' , the 'wrong' thing . When the
    sin element of sex is removed it becomes another
    biological exercise like eating. In marriage the sin
    factor is contributed by trying to hide it from
    children and house help. But after sometime that
    fails to provide the adrenaline rush to spark the
    excitement in sex; that is when people start to
    cheat. Sleeping with a prostitute when married is
    'wrong' but to most men it offers plenty of
    pleasure. Simply because its not right.














    thinkin in that line is quite true n intelligent. you really what u say?

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  21. mmmmhhhh...Interesting view on SIN...when you are having sex like i do for a living its not longer a SIN....mmmmmhhh SIN doesnt change because of how you perceive it, a stone doesnt become a loaf of bread because you call it bread....it will remain a stone......and true we are all sinners and whether we like it or not Wages of SIN is Death....

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  22. Your view of sex and sin is epiphanic.this is good stuff

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  23. @Kryptonite "...an accountable doctrine that shall shape the future of quality prostitution in Kenya..."

    Splendid stuff! Yes Sue, God bless the chronicles.

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  24. Sue u really are saying it as it iS,but the reality still remains tht a sin iz a sin especially wen recurrent.Tiz up to each person to wrk on thea morality

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  25. Great story Sue, I can't imagine how exciting having sex in a police station is but I don't think it's on my list of things to do though. .
    :-)

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  26. sex involve the work of the brain,so let no one tries to take us for a ride that the experience was so sweet yet she was nervous scared of the police and the action was taking place within police station

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